If you noticed that I’m different, don’t take it personally. Don’t be mad, it’s just a brand new kind of me.

Alicia Keys – Brand New Me

Welcome back to my blog! I hope you had a great new year and a great start to 2021. I can’t believe what 2020 has shown us and now here we are again with the unknown of endless possibilities for year 2021. This week I wanted to help you how to manifest a better 2021 and to ditch the new year resolutions tradition.

In my opinion, manifesting what you want at the beginning of the New Year is a great way to start thinking positively. I believe this to be helpful, because it also helps with your mental health. I used to be the person that wrote a list of things I wanted to resolved for the upcoming year. Instead of doing that, I decided to manifest my desires and here is how I’m doing it.

Be Grateful.

We all have thought about things we wish we had. For example, a better car, a better place to live, more money, etc. Instead of wishing for these things, be grateful for what you have now. The things you have now is something that someone else out there wishes they have and that is the bare minimum. Be grateful that you are able to drive your working car, be grateful for a roof over your head and be grateful that you have income despite COVID. By being grateful, you are putting your mind in a positive state that is going to help you manifest your desires.

Let it go.

Let all of the negativity go. This includes things you have no control over. You need to just let it go. It’s only going to hurt you in the end, because you are holding on to something that you have no control over. Why weigh yourself down with negative thoughts, feelings, action, etc.? All of these negative experiences are taking up space for new, positive experiences to take place. You only have one life to live and do you really want to spend it being angry or sad all the time? Of course not! However, you should be putting all of that energy into manifesting what you want out of life.

Visualize.

In other words, this is the fun part. Visualize everything you want to manifest in this year. Write it down. Speak it. Visualize it. You want to travel? Research the places you want to visit. Buy a map and hang it on your wall. Start putting up a savings for traveling. Purchase your necessities like a passport or suitcase. As a result, when you surround yourself with things that are going to help you reach your dreams, it is going to motivate you to keep pursuing them.


Most importantly, be consistent. Repeat the points if you feel you are being sidetracked. Remember to trust the process and think positively. Also, have faith in your abilities and start doing more and less of being stagnant. You are the only reason that is keeping you from reaching what you want. What are your manifestations for 2021? Thanks for reading!

XOXO, Official Desarae