Did you have a Valentines Bae, a Galentines Day or simply spent the day by yourself? It doesn’t matter, because this post is for you if you’re wondering what is the next step in your dating life. Maybe you met someone that has spark your interest? Or maybe you’re wondering how to move on to the next level. Should you move on to the next step in the relationship? Are you guys strictly friends or something more? Keep on reading to learn about forgetting new relationships and more about dating.

As humans, we have to remember to DATE PEOPLE. Yes, more than one person, because it’s smart to see what you like and do not like in a person. Dating doesn’t always mean being involve romantically. It simply means vibing with someone. For example, going out on dates, learning facts about them and getting to know them with a purpose. That purpose could mean being eventually be in a commitment relationship or whatever end goal you have in mind. I don’t mean blurt out and say “this is what I want and I want it now”.

No, just go with the flow and remember to be honest. If you’re not upfront with what you’re looking for, it can be bad for both parties. Otherwise, you’ll feel like you have wasted your time and that’s not always the case. That person just wasn’t it for you and that’s okay. Fall back and remember why you fell in love with yourself so you can remain in good shape to date.

Habits

Majority of the time we like the comfort we instill in our lives. We set a routine. For instance, wake up and eat, get dressed and go to work, etc., but now that someone new has enter your life, things begin to change. Change is scary. It’s absolutely terrifying, because we are afraid things are too good to be true. Our mind starts racing like ok, if we do decide to be together, can this actually work? However, change can be good.

That is to say, we forget to date our spouse when we do decide to take the relationship to the next level. We are so habitual. Think about it. The good morning texts slowly goes away and the cute texts in the middle of the day are no longer happening. Most importantly, what about actually spending quality time together. As a result, we don’t talk about the importance of courting anymore, because now everything is about fuck love and securing a bag. How about we forget the relationship for now and try dating in hopes of securing a lifelong partner.

I hope this helps with any future decisions you will make in regards to your dating life. Remember to do things on your own time and not cause of what you see others are doing. You set the pace in your dating world. Keep up with Official Desarae on Facebook and Instagram for more lifestyle inspiration!

XOXO, Official Desarae